I can't believe how quickly 2011 flew by!!! It seems like just yesterday we were in Tulsa preparing to drive back to Denver from Christmas with our families and now we have two days left in the year!
2010 ended with the death of a very special woman in my life. Grandma Ida, my adopted great-grandmother, passed away on 12/30/2010 as we were leaving to come home to Colorado. Grandma Ida was 99! Unfortunately I was unable to return to Tulsa the beginning of January for her memorial service, which was a beautiful service dedicated to her beautiful life and the wonderful memories and legacy that she left behind. The rest of January was spent working in a place that I was becoming more resentful and unhappy, being sicker than I had in a long time and making final plans for our wedding. We had tastings for two different caterers, several floral consultations, and final decisions made on our wedding invites. We got to see Zach and Whitney for the day when we went to Golden to tour the Coors Factory and explore in downtown Golden. Then the next weekend they spent the night with us!
February was an exciting month... we received our cocktail napkins for the wedding, our wedding invites arrived and were sent out (5 months early for our wedding) and we received two photo books. My birthday came and went with me being laid up on the couch sick (again)... Ian, not having a job at the time, bought me the cutest (and most awesomest) stuffed frog for a combined Valentine's and birthday gift. (I still sleep with that frog every night!) Grandma Austin went in for her annual check up for her cancer... and we got the news that it was back... decisions to be made once more information was gathered.
March brought the "international" invites going out (on the 1st) and the selection of our caterer... we had a hard time deciding between the two caterers! We decided to do our own flowers rather than pay a lot of money for someone else to do what we could do on our own. In effort to save some money, we stayed home during my Spring Break and did work around the house. We built me a desk/craft area and refurbed an antique table base. We also bought enough seed to cover the earth (or so it seemed) to reseed our front and back yard (in an attempt to get some grass to grow...) and soil conditioner and fertilizer and even some flower seeds and bulbs. We were hoping that the gardens would be in full bloom when our families arrived in July...
April 1st was 100 days from our wedding! What an exciting day! Ian told me that he didn't care about the count down until we hit 100! We continued our project of improving the yards and garden... still hoping for some amazing blooms in July! I had my summative evaluation with my principal. All remarks were proficient, meets expectations, exceeds expectations in almost all areas, the only areas that were needs improvement or improving were in the areas of SBS (Standards Based System). I was a little relieved after this evaluation meeting. Grandma found out that she needed to have a hysterectomy to remove the cancerous cells from her body near the end of the month. Now the wait was on to find out when the surgery was going to be scheduled... Nothing like hurrying up to wait for the insurance company!
May brought us even closer to the wedding. Our plans were coming together seamlessly. Invites were out, decorations mainly purchased, photographer set, engagement pictures taken, caterer finalized and steps were in place for the Tulsa reception in August. Then I got the letter... well actually the meeting with my administration team... I was being non-renewed because I "didn't fit" with the building... I was devastated but at the same time, I was already looking for another job because I was not happy with where I was professionally. Drama was starting to settle down amongst the natives regarding the wedding plans. I taught my Severe Needs Special Education class how to sign the National Anthem and we signed it in front of the entire districts participants at our STARZ Track ad Field day for our special needs kids!!! I was sooo proud of my kids (and my staff!)!!!
June finally arrived! I drove home for a whirlwind 10 day trip. Two bridal showers, my nieces dance recital, two veil fittings, a hair appointment, dress fittings with mom and my reception dress, and time with my little brother and Ana, oh and an interview. It was quite the trip that is for sure. During my trip I got to talk to my favorite GI Joe, Ed Johnson, just before he loaded up on the plane to go to Afghanistan for his 9 month tour. After returning to Colorado the whirlwind continued... dress pressed, nails done, spray tan completed, bridal portraits, jewelry party, makeup party, shopping with friends to finish up decorations and last minute details. I even met up with my friend Karin to sew purses for the bridal party AND 100 corn sacks/tubes for wedding favors. We celebrated Ian's birthday in his requested low-key style. You'd like information on my interview huh? Let's just say that within 30 minutes of finishing the interview, I received a call offering me a job! I accepted within 15 minutes! Grandma Austin had her hysterectomy with enough time to heal before my parents came out to Colorado for the wedding. However, just before coming out we got the news that there was some suspicious fluid in/around her stomach and intestines...
Our wedding month FINALLY came around! The weekend before our wedding we decided to jet set off to Aspen... on July 1 we dropped the dogs off at the kennel to be boarded for the weekend and we were off! We had never driven up Loveland Pass before so we decided to give it a shot, we had all the time in the world! Loveland Pass was beautiful! After that side trip we stayed on the passes and took Independence Pass into Aspen. Since we had never stopped at the Independence Ghost Town before (prior to my father visiting summer 2010) we thought we'd stop and hike and explore the area! After the ghost town, we headed on into Aspen and decided to check out Hunter creek before meeting up with Ian's cousins for the evening in Basalt. Saturday morning we got up and headed home, but we decided to take the scenic route home again. This time we stopped at the Day Grotto area on the pass where we explored the Ice Cave for the 3rd year in a row. Then we headed home the same way that we arrived. Who does that!?!?! The weekend before your wedding go out of town!!! We came home to tag the favors, place stickers on the water bottles and stuff hotel guest sacks and start cleaning like crazy people in preparation for my family to arrive on Wednesday! The fourth of July was another low-key affair, Kodi is scared to death of loud noises so we had to stay home with her to make sure she didn't freak out. My parents came in early to help out with final plans for the wedding. It seemed like everything had been coming together so smoothly and then the week of just fell apart! We went from having 60 RSVP'd guests to 40... the flower lady called to say that the flowers I had ordered didn't arrive... had to go to two different stores to get the flowers... it was storming, like Oklahoma thunderstorms... we hadn't finalized the slideshow and the music playlists or selected our vows, and it didn't seem like it would ever happen! The final straw that nearly brought me down was the phone call from Ian's mom saying that her sister wasn't going to be able to make the wedding... no biggie right? WRONG! Her sister is the one who had the veil!!! AUGH!!!! About the time that I was getting weak in the knees and tears were flowing over my freshly spray tanned face, Ian found out that the veil had been overnighted to us!
The wedding was beautiful, despite Ian being sick... I wouldn't change any of the details if I could do it over again. (See posts on the wedding). Finally, our families went home, Ian started to feel better and we prepared to go to Tulsa for the next reception.
The beginning of August was very hectic as well. I was starting orientation and moving my stuff into my new classroom and we were packing to go to Tulsa. That four day trip left my head spinning and my body wishing for a day off before returning to training! The reception was fun and we had a lot of people come by to wish us well and to catch up with us. It was so great to get to spend time with Kelly and Jack as well as Zach and Whitney. My new job started and I was loving the team that I worked with at my elementary school. For the first time in my career my caseload was less than 50! The team that I worked with was organized and open to helping me and supporting me. We finally got the news from the doctor that grandma had a rare form of cancer brought on from the over-radiation 7 years ago when she initially was diagnosed with Colon cancer... this new form of cancer was determined to be untreatable. She didn't make it to our reception because she wasn't feeling too well, but we did manage to spend some time with her before the party.
September brought Ian a job with Handyman Matters. He was working like crazy, which was good for him and us. Work was still good and I was still loving it!!! The fall foliage was beautiful and we were enjoying being married. I even got to see my friend Jen from Fort Worth!!! Grandma was still doing well and living in her apartment, although we were wondering how long that would last...
Then in October work slowed down for Ian. Boo!!! We took a day to go to Estes Park with our friends, Ilene and Franco and their crazy kids, Shi and Sergio. The scarecrows in Estes were fun! I think that we will be trying that again next year! Grandma Austin's health was starting to decline- she was starting to have difficulty eating and her blood count was low. She was tired a lot and was starting to have pain.
November brought my parents making preparations for Grandma to move in with them. Since grandma's health was declining more rapidly than they expected, my parents flew me home the week before Thanksgiving so that I could spend time with her. I had a great visit at home. I got to spend time with my grandma sewing and some quality one on one time that I never really had the chance to have as a child growing up. I will always have the blankets that my grandma and I made together. I flew back to Colorado on Wednesday before Thanksgiving so that we could spend our first married Thanksgivingtogether.
December... my first Christmas to NOT be with my family... this was a tough pill to swallow for me. But there was no possible way that we were going to be able to afford the trip to Tulsa. We bought our first Christmas tree and decorated it with the various decorations that we have collected since we started dating... we even hung our stockings under the mantle! Having the decorations up made it a little easier being away from our families. And it was a little nice having a quiet day together, not being back and forth between his family and mine and time together... Grandma was living with my parents by this time. Her health was declining a little faster than expected, my mom was starting to have to come to grips with the fact that this would be the last holiday spent with her mother. :(
New Years Eve 2011 came with us ringing in the new year with Ian's cousins and friends. It is great being able to spend time with family and develop these wonderful relationships!!!